My father and I are similar: We both like poetry and singing (him at friends’ and relatives’ functions and I like whistling or humming a song, sometimes, when I’m writing poems or weblogs).
My mother and I have just 1 similarity: We both love art. She used to paint.
That’s where the similarities end: I’m constantly and actively either writing; painting; visiting art exhibitions; going along to the local common with the local conservation group to do some work on the natural habitat or attending functions/events of one type or another.
I prefer to be writing or going along to an exhibition/event/function than ‘have a chat’, whereas my mother is constantly babbling about something or other to the point where she doesn’t stop to think about what she’s saying or listen to what I’m saying, which I don’t mind, because I normally just like to discuss the bare essentials and the minimum. Point finale. Nothing more, nothing less. Then it’s back to getting my head around some writing/art/event. I prefer reading/digesting/commenting on literary works and artwork, than discuss the daily happenings around me, because those (literary) ideas liberate my thoughts and experience which I then pen or draw.
I’ve mentioned to her in the past, when I could get a word in edge ways, to take up art again but she just wasn’t interested. Yet if I wasn’t writing, painting or going to an exhibition/event/function in my spare time, she’d ring me up to ask what I was doing and if I said, nothing, her ‘rambling journey’ would begin. Fortunately, that doesn’t happen often.
I’m writing new material now which I want a publisher to publish at some point. To date, I’ve self published two books of poems to:
1. Copyright early ideas/experiences
2. Record/Note my childhood and early experiences (an idea which I kept in mind when one lecturer mentioned in a seminar that whatever we publish, we should publish influences going back to childhood or early days, even if it meant self publishing and which may/may not be seen by anyone, because those influences can then be used as a stepping stone for current influences and ideas - that was and is my way of thinking too)
Writing, reading literary works and painting, for me, have been and still are a good medium for putting ideas and thoughts on paper or getting ideas, because it hasn’t always been convenient/appropriate to discuss these ideas and thoughts, with others:-
1. The time factor for one thing
2. Acquaintances, friends and relatives lead equally busy/demanding lives.
Writing and the arts, like music, can be very stressful at times:
1.Finding the motivation to write and paint can be challenging
2.A lot of factors can make this difficult at times (as I’d mention to the poet, Wizard of Skills at a recent poetry event):-
a)Irritation - try using the public transport in London
b)The weather - a cold, wet, windy/gray day makes me feel ‘under the weather’ at times
c)Self motivation - try writing when the laundry, shopping, cleaning have to be scheduled into your busy programme and a million other things have to be done/put into action/planned for future action
So I don’t know where my mother gets all that (turbo) energy from. Beats me. I’ve often mentioned again to her in the past, to read some good books. She wasn’t interested.
I also mentioned to her that she should take up yoga and meditate. That didn’t appeal to her.
Yoga is so relaxing - after writing, reading literary works/poems and commenting on them or
painting or going to an exhibition and/or function, I do that to help relax my mind, body and soul.
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Tonic In Sight
Sometimes I’d appreciate
A slice of that energy that
exerts you into a turbo mother
always asking if I’ve eaten
never stopping to listen
for an answer
too busy with your thoughts
of pleasing, being present
racking off a few things
you’ve done whilst on my
way home
my mobile in hand
on the train
saying you’ve got
something to bring
over and whether I want
anything but you get me
something different
to what I normally like
So not quite what I’d like
but what you’d like to hear
so my answers go unnoticed
in the wind of change
The mobile rings
and before I know it
your day’s journey
has just begun.
©Coll B. Lue
(Taken from my book: Poetical Inspirations - Ad Hoc & Per Se)
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Silence is golden. MUM’S THE WORD.
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